Stop dating bad men
He may not treat you with flowers or gifts as often, he may be less careful about hiding bad habits and he phones or emails you a lot less. We love hearing from our boyfriend and knowing that he’s thinking of us.When our phone rings and the caller id says it’s him, our heart skips a little.Unfortunately that can also be one of the drawbacks.Many women find that men become less attentive when they know they are your one and only.The same is true with how you handle contact after the date.Your actions speak volumes about how you perceive relationships and what you want in the future from him.Always initiating contact suggests that you are becoming too dependent on him and that you need reassurance that he’s right where you want him – interested. He’ll wonder why you aren’t chasing him down like other women have.
Paul Leighton's graduate Violence & Society seminar at Eastern Michigan University in the fall of 1999.As women, when we’ve got a date lined up with a man we’re interested in, we want to make a good impression. If we come across as too aggressive, he might never want a second date.