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(aka domination and submission) with a willing partner.Sometimes they don’t know what questions to ask or where to begin.It’s much more productive to invest your energy in someone who’s open-minded and/or enthusiastic about the idea.If there isn’t mutual willingness, you’re going to have a very hard time creating a win-win situation. If you want to try D/s, then communicate that with your partner.Consider that if you’re going to spend so much of your life dealing with various aspects of authority, you might as well take the time to explore and understand this aspect of reality more thoroughly. I understand the reasons for keeping this part of your life a secret, but if you do that, I think it will be very difficult to find a good partner, unless you already have access to a D/s-friendly community of some kind.

You can convert to an open relationship and enjoy D/s play with interested partners on the side.

You fall into a routine and begin looping through familiar patterns, which can become less engaging over time.

For most people I’ve talked to, this usually happens within a timeframe of 6-18 months after the relationship begins.

Or you can abandon your interest in D/s play and settle for a vanilla experience.

For me D/s play is too much fun not to have it in my life, so I wouldn’t want to get into a long-term relationship with someone who wasn’t interested in it.

It’s like trying to convince someone to play a game that they don’t want to play.