Rebecca dating one direction
I was itching to define the relationship, but he didn’t want to, and I wasn’t even sure if I actually wanted this guy to be my boyfriend, which was a weird situation to be in.
When we started sleeping together, I gave him my rule: If you fuck someone else, I need to know about it, because I don’t sleep with men who are sleeping with other people. (I know.) And it had me question whether or not it was a situation I wanted to be in. Most of us have experienced a serious relationship by accident, usually when we really like the person we’re dating and it just naturally develops into something more.If you’re struggling with this, here’s a short list to help you go from a casual date to a serious mate (so lame, I know).My “don’t-sleep-with-anyone-else-while-you’re-sleeping-with-me” rule is one of those boundaries, because I’ve learned I fall hard for men after we’ve been intimate, and I don’t like sharing.
After Jude, I won’t have regular sleepovers with a dude until he’s earned my trust and the privilege of spending all that time in my space. To make yourself a better partner, think about your past relationships.